I loved this piece, thanks for writing it. Time without interruption is one I’m learning to master. Just allow my 9mo to play, observe, let her finish without distracting her with a new toy or moving her elsewhere. She’s most quiet when I just let her be, be close by and do something quiet myself like write or read or stretch. I’m there if she needs me to engage without stimulating her.
This is beautifully said. You’re already practicing the hardest part: being present without interrupting. It’s amazing how calm they become when we let them finish their own thoughts and movements.
I’m glad you asked. These ideas came from what I do with my son, who just turned 3 so they reflect that stage. At 4 and 5, children naturally stretch the same activities into deeper play which is a great sign.
I loved this piece, thanks for writing it. Time without interruption is one I’m learning to master. Just allow my 9mo to play, observe, let her finish without distracting her with a new toy or moving her elsewhere. She’s most quiet when I just let her be, be close by and do something quiet myself like write or read or stretch. I’m there if she needs me to engage without stimulating her.
This is beautifully said. You’re already practicing the hardest part: being present without interrupting. It’s amazing how calm they become when we let them finish their own thoughts and movements.
Really nice summary! Thank you. I like how you included a hands on list of things to do. What age children did you have in mind with that list?
Mine are 4 and 5 and I feel like we go quite further on many of these points. Maybe too much?
I’m glad you asked. These ideas came from what I do with my son, who just turned 3 so they reflect that stage. At 4 and 5, children naturally stretch the same activities into deeper play which is a great sign.
Thanks! It makes sense then.
I have a 3 and a 5 year old, so I really appreciate all of these very practical things I can model in my own home.
I’m happy you found this helpful. I write what I’m learning in real time.